Communications and How it is use

There are 3 obvious channels of communications, which are the words we use, non verbal, and the tomes. Communications worked under these level as a way that help us receive that capacity we need in order to understand each other. To start with words, only 14 percent are being actually received. I have realize this because I really don't remember any words in the order that was spoken to me. People would say things and we would generalize what was said by them. We can only check again with that person we talked to. The most misunderstood channel is the non verbal communications. Sometime we might do something that might anger someone. And the worst part about it, is that we wouldn't even know it. People who recieve this part of the conversation, may be in a place that are not good. So they could believe things that are not true based on the things being done around them. I had an experience where my cousin was mad at me for the longest time. I did not know what I was doing wrong until she started to yell at me. Apparently I was coming off pretty distant while doing my chores. I wasn't as enthusiastic as I usually was and she thought that I just not enjoying the moments we're together. That's when empathy becomes a big part of my life where I was able to understand. When someone is having a rough time with anything, the learn trait of listening can take awhile to develop. To truly communicate, you need to be able to listen as well. Listening can be misinterpret by just solving their problem rather than trying to see their perspective. It requires humility to have the best intentions. It's not about you when you are actually listening, it brought me to become better to talk to. Easy to communicate in a way that allows people to be open with you. With that, you gain the ability of empathy. Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. Of course, we all know sharing our feelings is easier said than done. Another thing I wanna talk about, is sarcasm. I've wondered how sarcasm has effected us in our daily lives. We use this type of language for fun and it may be a way for people to get along. But it's actually corruptible in a way that it's not quite edifying. You may say certain things with truth or a lie. Sarcasm in a truth brings doubts to the person that uses it. In a lie, it brings an empty feeling that potentially divide people apart. The way we communicate with each other should not contain any bitterness. I know we all have our own flaws in the way we communicate, but that can be change with an act of love. Showing people that we care everyday and getting rid of unnecessary fluffs in our lives. It's a beautiful thing to show love than to criticize. When we love someone, we tell them to change in order to be better. Not to simply point put their flaws so that they know, but it is to lift. Using a sharp toung every now and then will help people become motivated. But it can only truly be good if it's out of love. The Spirit teaches us to know good and evil with the experience we go through as we get older in our lives. It may not be a big deal, and so there are things that doesn't need to be a big deal. Some trivial things are fought over, and it goes deeper than the surface. Love is the answer as it is primarily said, anger is not as it is expressed more in today's world.