Families Apart

 First and foremost, people can tell flaws in the dating period predict marriage struggles. Which is something we all can gauge during our courtship with others. Reasons to why some marriages does not work, is being selfish, terrible with money, breaking promises, and faithless. We are responsible for your actions, of course it is important to recognize the growth and potential of a person. People just tend to fall for the social connections that creates chemistry. While others tends to have a logical standpoint without feelings. Getting straight to marriage immaturely is not the goal, as it is important for couples to talk about their future. In other words, what is being done when families are being torn apart? From what I've learned, I find the circumstances quite compelling. Situations where either the husband or wife walk away from each other can affect the children significantly. All divorces are huge challenges, they are never easy for anyone. It affects their love ones who are in both sides of the family, especially when families become blended through a marriage. The dynamic, of course, is very different. People find someone else to get marry to each other. At that point, who is making the decisions for the children? Would this affect children positively? Or negatively? In all honesty, it never worked out positively for both parties. It would be best to save the marriage than separating from each other. Most people would say yes, but they sometimes do not know how beneficial it is to do so. People go through changes in the process during the phases of marriage. They might actually find it really hard to stay in a marriage, so it may seem to be easier to go their separate ways. If they had truly realized what marriage truly consists of, then they would be happy with it. The expectations of knowing what the dynamic would be, can change our mindset to go into marriage. It's a beautiful thing to solve problems when things come about. Shifting our priorities to give attentions to things that matters. Changing our nature is key to working together in helping one grow, taking on the focus with each other. In a difficult marriage, one spouse may have one very different focus than the other. One may only want to provide for their family, while the other cares about nurturing their children. Creating some trust issues in supporting each other while in time of crisis. When both parties are exhausted, they tend to shift the blame without any thoughts or consideration because they haven't been on the same page. To me, I know that my relationships with others may rise in conflict due to misunderstandings. Miscommunications is the likely chance of breaking two relationships, bringing contention showing two parties who can care less for each other. As you can tell, I do not endorse ways to get a divorce in any shape or form. The Savior has answered this concern with why separate when you have done so this far? The purpose is to work things out because you've made the decision to do so when you were committed. That's why people should be aware of what marriage actually is, getting a divorce is mostly not the answer. The way to avoid it, is to make the best choice in marrying someone who will keep those commitments to you! Marriage is about everlasting, to be with each other for all eternity. You are together because you want to be together. Separating is not the goal, since it can be devastating not only to you. But also to everyone you may know in your life.