Behaviors

In light of recent events, I’ve had the opportunity to learn about behaviors and needs. All of us has a need for contact and belonging, especially for children. We need that through all of our lives. To feel important and know that individually we matter. When we are young, we are attention seekers. When I was younger, I noticed how annoying I was to my cousins and parents. I offered contact freely and wanted to be recognized freely. It made sense to talk to me since I was wanting to be more involve more. I also get attention by working or helping my mom around the house. The second need was power, the ability to have choices they can make. In order to help them understand the consequences that goes with their choices. This is how people develop and grow into the person they’re going to be. Kids sometimes needs to know how controlling will not have a peaceful standing. We all need protection from emotional and physical harm. Knowing this information has changed lives from one to another. The combination of asserting ourselves to open up our feelings and forgiveness . We need to use a form of seeking protection. It’s takes quite the courage to do so. We learn to get rid of grudges and terrible feeling that may come. And that’s how it works, people get caught up to doubts and getting out the box. People spend a lot of time to withdraw by playing video games and doing only in door activities. Ultimately, we all have the need of challenges. We learn by overcoming obstacles and feeling good to accomplish the best things we know it’s real. We often try to do so, by how tall or big we can make something. Stretching our abilities to get the best out of us. Either in video games or through activities that may be fun. I play video games that has challenges within them. This encourages skill buildings, the effort people put in is what they want to challenge themselves to. Even today, college is what I consider a challenge today. It’s not something I have to do, but it’s to push myself with great effort. College is not hard, and I am looking for adventure. We can be so driven by wanting to have a journey, that we can actually become obsessed about things. I also believe in how we should respond to circumstances in our lives, since it can be detrimental to us. In our younger years, we are also vulnerable by giving up. We all have the struggle to go through tough times, and that can be walls instead of obstacles to overcome. Our conviction can be awaken at a young age. That’s up to us when our agency in place, learning about our plan and principles we live by. I’ve noticed how I was trouble with behavioral issues when tough times hits. A solution we can learn is addressing the problems. All of us will have challenges come before us, we can handle it with our attitude. We may not solve problem with behaviors, we should ask ourselves if this is something we need to change. Do I need to change? Or do we? All of us need to have discussion on a regular basis. We want to allow natural consequences in order for them to be taught. Especially social situations, letting them have experiences rather than being told what is appropriate. In exceptions to dangerous activities where they can potentially hurt themselves. Another dangerous situation is by letting an immature teenager make a decision about life. Realizing this, I was not making the best decisions during those years. It’s quite embarrassing to actually even remind myself of those experiences. Sometimes things don’t go the way they want it to go. Teaching teenagers the skills to do so in discussions is key to learning. A person with an experience is never at the mercy with someone with an opinion.