I believe the youth today is prematurely taking on dating in their own way. But at the same time, we are receiving the opportunities to be ourselves when it comes to dating. There has been many complaints regarding today's courtship. Most youth has given up due to bad experiences they had with a boy or girls. I'm pretty sure that our generation today has a different standard than what people had 20 years ago. From my personal feedback I received, commitment has been the huge issue. With commitment, people tend to display responsibility, integrity and honestly self respects. From what I've been told, not a lot of that is being spread around as it should. I've taken the liberty to go on more dates this semester than the last. I've got my own issue too, not to say I'm better than most. The traditional way of courtship is seen as the worst option for our youth. From the girls perspective, the men are not that creative anymore. Some of them just wants to watch movie in their room. Some wants to just play video games and honestly just want temporal pressures. Many would get cold feet, giving a person no closer. No continuations to proceed marriage. The m term seems to be something that isn't part of their careers anymore. It seems like there's a ton of responsibility that comes from it. People nowadays just want a one time fling that will become of nothing. The one time relationships are more for confirmation than anything else. People may feel insecure, so they decide to get into physical intimacy that only last for that day. The natural pleasure won't satisfied us forever, it'll leave us to an empty shell that'll make us wanting more in the end. No joy can come from those actions. When it comes to dating, I believe that I was able to learn one thing or two. On a date, if people actually decide to go on one, can find out who they really are. There are things I was able to learn about myself and it has been quite the surprise. I had found flaws that I can personally work on in order to better myself. Sure I was being who I am, but it doesn't mean I can't be better everyday. I didn't pay for the ice cream on the first date! Why? I just had the wrong expectation with how things should be. There's actually an expectation both sides got to meet in order for a person to be themselves. On the date, a person needs to be able to be themselves, to communicate and get to know the person on a deeper level. I learned that woman pays attention to how they feel on the date. They remember what they did with you and wonders if that's something the want to live with. Not wanting to know if we can provide and among other things that are unimportant. It is also good to know that people may not be looking for the right things. A person may be looking for something specific about them, but in the end finds out that it doesn't matter. Like height difference for example, girls tend to like taller guys due to the standards that's been set. These are things people may look for that won't matter. But we can learn through our experiences. I personally don't have too many experiences in this field. but I will still continue on learning so that I can reach my potential. I don't know when it will happen, so now is the time to take action. A person needs
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